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Life’s lessons come hard some times.

April 26th, 2009

When McClain moved out, i told him… strongly… to get receipts for everything. NEVER give one person cash for bills… always give a check or Money Order, so that he’d have a receipt of some kind, showing that he paid for everything he did. Well, time has come and he’s moved out… and now he’s being screwed!

He signed a paper saying that he owed for one months rent when he actually paid it. Why did he sign it?? cuz they were all confused as to when the rent was paid. So, anyway, i asked him if he had a receipt for it and sure enough, he doesn’t. so he’s screwed. He has to pay them an extra $325. The good news is that he’s been given until the end of August to pay for this bill!

We’ll get it paid long before then, but it’s made him very angry with the other two.

Longer story here than i’m going to write about, but for some reason Mooch’s mom was there and all kinds of upset about all this. … which is beyond me, since from day one, Mooch never paid rent or his portion of the bills. He “cleaned” house for his portion… but the 3 times that i was there, the house was a wreck and nasty. And Lain even took out the trash one time when i was there…
Whatever. i hope he’s learned now, you can’t trust them and to take better care of his money!!! Course, i’m going to be taking care of his money!!! Til he gets out of debt that is! lol

Update on Kris… he’s doing great!! Really loves what he’s doing and is having a great time in Boot camp. i’m so proud of him!!!!

Happy Birthday Tonny Jean

April 15th, 2009

Hope your day is filled with love and fun!!!

April 8th, 2009

not sure how these will come out, but these are the newest pics of the “office” and the hallway. We’re working on the dining room now.
We get the desk today for the office, When it’s complete i’ll post a real pic of the completed room. :)

Hope you can see the colors. They really are pretty!

photo_040809_0011 This is the “office” looking from my chair in the living room. You can see the hallway and the office. They are both done with paint.

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This is the family room from my chair. We haven’t done anything to it yet.

photo_040709_001 This is the newest addition to our family. Nicole’s RAT! His name is Spiffers.

Also,

April 1st, 2009

Lain is moving back home at the end of the month. We’re looking at him moving back in, getting a new car, getting back on his feet. He loved living on his own, but was swallowed by the bills when he had to support Mooch as well as himself. Also, mooch is having his girlfriend move in, and Chris’ gf is moving in too. So they should be ok…. For some reason… Mooch is *determined* to get a job now. Why he wasn’t 4 mos ago is beyond me. i just don’t like that kid!!!! LOL

So i’ll be glad to get Lain back home where he can get back on his feet. :)

Kris is gone now…

April 1st, 2009

He left yesterday afternoon for Boot camp. He’s actually leaving today at 11:30 for Missouri and he’s so excited! He’s making himself sick over it all actually. lol Scratchy throat, watery eyes.. . he’ll be fine.

Z’s been out of the pic for abut a week. She’s texted me a couple times, called me once, contacted Kris a few times, but we’ve got reports on all of it and the State’s Attorney thinks they are going to just send all the reports to him in a bundle, rather than sending them down one by one! LOL

i’m thrilled that Kris got out of here without disruption from her. now our prayer is that he makes it through boot camp without bombing out. i think he’ll do fine. Don is wondering if he’s going to wimp out on it! LOL We’ll see!!!!

short and sweet.

March 17th, 2009

Nothing much has been going on. Thankfully! i love it when it’s quiet. :)

We’ve got the *office* ready to paint. i told DOn that i’d be in there today… but instead i ran errands this morning and here i sit on the puter! LOL Yah, i’d better get in there, it’s certainly not going to paint itself!

That’s about it. boring here too. i love boring!

here she goes again…

March 7th, 2009

The other day (Wed) Z called my cell phone 2ce and the house phone once. The first time, i answered, but it was like it was a mistake call, you now how when your phone calls someone, but they aren’t *at* the phone, so when you answer, you hear them talking to other people with the phone in their pocket. The 2nd time i was at Bible Study so i didn’t even answer the call. The 3rd time was just a few minutes after the 2nd call and N answered it. The person on the other end said “I see you, you are watching tv” (She was at my computer) N said “No i’m not”… They said “Oh that’s right you are at the big window playing with your black dog”. N hung up at that point.

i called the police the next day, cuz that’s in violation of her bond (to contact us in any way) They said they’d “look into it”. Turns out she also called Kris! When the police went to talk to her about calling me, she said that he was “harassing” her. So she’s trying to get him in trouble. The police told K that it’s ok, they KNOW who she is and what she’s like, so not to worry about it, but not to have ANY contact with her, ignore calls and texts.

Also, she’s moved in with someone that lives on the block. So she’s walking around the streets. She never looks at the house when she walks by, but it’s just strange. Don wants to send Kris to NC, i don’t. He’s only got 20 days left here. He’ll be ok.

i’m just angry (again) that she’s a twit and is trying to hurt us again. Course i’m calling the cops on her… but she’s starting it. Do i sound like a 2 year old yet?!?! LOL

There are times…

March 4th, 2009

When i love my husband so much, my heart could just burst!!! i’ve been kinda sappy in love with him lately. So much that when he comes in the room i just smile. When i look at him and see his grey hair (he’s got his beard right now with winter here and all) i just get all…. oh… just… How do you explain it???

i just love him. i love to be with him, i love to do things with him, i love that , after 30 years, we still hold hands, he still opens doors for me, we still kiss when we walk into the room where the other one is. It’s just … awesome!

i’m always afraid that we embarrass Nicole with all of our lovey dovey stuff when we’re in public. But the other day, even she said that she hopes that she will have a relationship like ours. i like that. :)

30 years… can you believe that??? It feels so bizarre. How can you love someone more today than you did when you first fell in love?? It’s a great feeling. i love it.

ok, what we’re going to do….

February 25th, 2009

So try to bear with me as i try to explain what we’re going to do and how we’re going to do it. If you don’t know my house, this might be a little difficult to follow, so i’ll explain my house first, then tell you what we’ll do.

My house is a two story brick home with a screened in front porch. When you first walk in the front door, you are in a hallway that leads you to the bathroom and dining room. On the immediate right is a bedroom. That was Kris’ room, or the guest room. On the immediate left is the family room, which has an open wooden way to the living room. As you stand at the front door, you can see the bay windows in the living room and the cast iron fireplace that stands in the middle of the far wall.

Walk down the hallway into the dining room and you’ll see a small bathroom on the right hand side that is under the stairway that turns and doubles back to the upstairs. When you get the dining room, there’s a little nook at the back of the room, that’s where i have my computer.

Once you get to the back of the dining room, turn to your left and you’ll see the living room again and then the kitchen is to the right of that. In the kitchen is the back door, a mud room (small) and then the stairs to the basement.

Back to the stairs that go upstairs. When you are at the bottom of those stairs, you go up about 6 steps and there’s a little landing, and then the stairs double back to continue up to the second floor. At the landing there are a set of windows there. (We’re replacing them and the bathroom next month) When you get to the top of the stairs, there’s Lain’s room on the left, Don and my room in the middle and then N’s room on the right. To the immediate right of the stairs is the bathroom.

So now that you have general idea as to how my house looks floor plan wise… this is what we’re going to do.

Mind you that right now… the whole house is carpeted… even the kitchen!!! We got the carpet out of the bathrooms, so they are tile and ceramic tile. Also, the WHOLE house is wallpapered. IT’s got this kinda mauve/vinyl type paper that we have to take down or the paint won’t stick to it. It’ll just bubble up and roll off. lol so we HAVE to take the paper down. ICK!!!

OK… so the bedroom that is/was Kris’… we’re going to make that into an office area. :) We’ll remove the paper in there and we’re going to paint it a golden color, not quite yellow, but not quite brownish either. We’ll move the computers into that room and worry about having company later!! LOL The bed and stuff that’s in there now, we’re going to put in the basement, so people can sleep down there if need be.

The hallway and dining room… we’re going to take up the carpet and put hardwood floors there… or we’ll just be restoring the floors that are already there. That will be from the front door, to the kitchen. The nook area in the dining room, we’ll put chair or benches there and make a little seating area perhaps. We’re going to paint it a green color.. not quite lime green, a little darker than that. We’ll also have to replace the chandelier that’s in here. We’ll be getting a new dining room suite too, with a china cabinet and all that.

Now, go back to the front door. The hall way will be painted a beige color, not white, but not tan either… more creamish. When you look into the living room and see the fireplace… that wall will be a red color. Like a darkish maroon. The rest will be a beige, or dark tan. The family room will be the same color beige. We’ll paint the fireplace brick the light cream color to match the walls in the hallway and then clean up the cast iron insert.

All in all we’re so totally excited about it and i’m going to start moving the stuff out of the bedroom and start tearing the wallpaper down soon. Probably friday or saturday. We’re still waiting on the final choices for the paints, but we’ have so much wallpaper to tear down that it’s ok if it takes a while! LOL

So what do you think? We’re excited and i so totally can’t wait to get started!!!!

ok, so i’m excited!!!

February 23rd, 2009

After living in this house for the last 8 years with this HORRID wallpaper on the walls, we’ve decided to PAINT and redecorate!!! i’m so excited!

An old friend is an interior designer and she came over to help us make decisions and we’ll go from there. First thing we’re going to do??? Change the *guest* room into an OFFICE!!! Our computers will be going in there, along with a few office type things. MAN i’m totally psyched about it!

We’ve got to start tearing down this wallpaper though and that’s going to be a job!!! The WHOLE HOUSE is papered… along with carpeted!

So do you want to hear the total plan??? It’s going to be amazing and i’ll have to take a ton of before and after pics, it’s going to totally change the feel of this house. :)